why is it that when something (that is caused by some feeling that is directed to some human being whom you find more worth liking compared to other human creatures) hurts you, people tend to give a rather unthought of advice: "forget her/him." and no its not their fault, they just happen to think those words would help.
but the thing is, it doesnt help at all. and its impossible in bold letters. i mean this isnt something that can possibly rank in your list of events subject to selective amnesia. even acquiring real amnesia takes hard work, i mean you have to be willing to subject yourself to ultra traumatic events or cook up some accident that will surely injure your head without killing yourself...and even real amnesia can be temporary.
even when its all over, even when the feelings all gone, you still never forget. you always remember. and even when youve let go, sometimes you still care. you still wish good things for the person. because after all, its not their fault you were hurt. they didnt force you to invest too much emotions in them, so blame it on your foolish foolish heart...
there actually is a thing called Lacunar amnesia. a loss of memory about one specific event and it can last for years and years and you might not be able to recover the memory ever again. but i think forgetting is easier done when there's no strong feelings involved. you can forget the many times you were poked, pricked, or punched by a friend but when your hopes was broken by someone, you cant just go amnesiac over it. *hope not heart because its not really the heart that breaks but your faith and hope in love, is it not?*
my point really is, "move/on" or "let/go" are both one syllable shorter than "for/get/her(or him)"...i think its more convenient to say the former to a friend...not to mention, more thoughtful, more sensitive. ^^
move on and let go... :)
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|How to make a Falling Star|
1/2 cup of naivety
3/4 cup of laughter
1/4 cup & 1 tsp. of insecurity
Combine in a tall glass half filled with crushed ice. Add a little cocktail umbrella and a dash of sadness. Sprinkle a bit of craziness (it's not complete without that!). Serve chilled with a smile. And recently, i discovered that if you add a pinch of faith, it'll be a lot better. Yum!*Do not overindulge!*
When i lost you, I was the one who loved you most, but between us you lost more. For someday I can love someone the way that i loved you but you will never be loved again the way that i did...
everything happens for a reason, nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. illness, injury, failures, love lost, memories of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of one's soul. without the small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat road to nowhere. it would be safe and comfortable but uttery pointless...
do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others, it is because we are different that each of us is special...
do not let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. by living your life, one day at a time, you live all the days of your life...
do not be afraid to encounter risks, it is by taking risks that we learn how to be brave...
do not run through life so fast that you forget, not only where you have been, but also where you are going...
Humankind get bored with childhood, they rush to grow up, and then long to be children again...
We cannot make anyone love us. All we can do is let ourselves be loved.
"If the sight of the blue skies fills you with joy, if the simple things of nature have a message that you understand, rejoice, for your soul is alive." - Eleonora Duse
"This is courage...to bear unflinchingly what heaven sends." - Euripedes
"Hope is faith holding out its hand in the dark." - George Iles
The hardest thing to do is to watch someone you love, love someone else.
Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, then its not the end.
Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.
Men are not worthy of precious tears, they just make us look terrible...
Its amazing the things you realize when you lose someone; you get mad at yourself for not saying the things you could've a million times, you take for grantd the days doing nothing when you could have been with them. anyone can be taken at anytime in our lives, but we always wait until theyre gone to say the things we never had the courage to before
Watching you walk out of my life hasn't made me bitter or cynical about love, but rather, it has shown me that if i wanted so badly to be with the wrong person, how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along...