i was chatting with a friend a while ago. it was a not-TOO-LONG-but-id-rather-NOT-say story how we became friends but anyway i asked him how he's been and he said, u know wat pain doesnt decompose when u bury them...you have to live with it. --------------------from ate yohwee: Falling Star asked me "how can i love as if it never hurts when i know it does?" ~~ when you love, be prepared to get hurt. it isn't always flowers and rainbows, you also have to be prepared when the rain comes. when i say "love like it's never gonna hurt", what i mean is, to love but be prepared to get hurt cause you will never appreciate love unless you've experienced pain. nevermind the pain, as long as you love, that's all that matters. who knows it will be worth it in the end. you will not also know if it will hurt you or not unless you try to love. Falling Star, i know that you've been jaded, but don't give up on love because you've experienced pain. take a breather, but instead of losing hope, believe. love is not blind but faith is. hang on. ~~
it got me thinking for a while...and my reply was, u dont have to live with pain forever...it doesnt decompose but it evaporates..at least mine did.
i always thought that once youre broken...the scars will remain forever.
i dont think that way anymore. pain can exhaust your strength, emotions, and tears for a while...maybe a really lOong while, but it cant hurt you forever. no one is forever broken.
i can only speak for myself but for the twenty one years that i have existed, i have been severely hurt by two men (or rather two immature boys) and although it almost felt impossible to heal then, now im all knit...all in one piece again...and i only have a faint memory of how hurt i was then, no, in fact i dont remember the feeling anymore.
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How to make a Falling Star |
Ingredients: 1/2 cup of naivety 3/4 cup of laughter 1/4 cup & 1 tsp. of insecurity |
Method: Combine in a tall glass half filled with crushed ice. Add a little cocktail umbrella and a dash of sadness. Sprinkle a bit of craziness (it's not complete without that!). Serve chilled with a smile. And recently, i discovered that if you add a pinch of faith, it'll be a lot better. Yum!*Do not overindulge!* |
When i lost you, I was the one who loved you most, but between us you lost more. For someday I can love someone the way that i loved you but you will never be loved again the way that i did...
everything happens for a reason, nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. illness, injury, failures, love lost, memories of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of one's soul. without the small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat road to nowhere. it would be safe and comfortable but uttery pointless...
do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others, it is because we are different that each of us is special...
do not let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. by living your life, one day at a time, you live all the days of your life...
do not be afraid to encounter risks, it is by taking risks that we learn how to be brave...
do not run through life so fast that you forget, not only where you have been, but also where you are going...
Humankind get bored with childhood, they rush to grow up, and then long to be children again...
We cannot make anyone love us. All we can do is let ourselves be loved.
"If the sight of the blue skies fills you with joy, if the simple things of nature have a message that you understand, rejoice, for your soul is alive." - Eleonora Duse
"This is courage...to bear unflinchingly what heaven sends." - Euripedes
"Hope is faith holding out its hand in the dark." - George Iles
The hardest thing to do is to watch someone you love, love someone else.
Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, then its not the end.
Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.
Men are not worthy of precious tears, they just make us look terrible...
Its amazing the things you realize when you lose someone; you get mad at yourself for not saying the things you could've a million times, you take for grantd the days doing nothing when you could have been with them. anyone can be taken at anytime in our lives, but we always wait until theyre gone to say the things we never had the courage to before
Watching you walk out of my life hasn't made me bitter or cynical about love, but rather, it has shown me that if i wanted so badly to be with the wrong person, how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along...
in the movie "in the mood for love," if someone had a secret they didnt want to share, they go up to a mountain, find a tree, carve a hole in it and whisper the secret into the hole...then they cover it with mud, leaving the secret there forever...
this is my hole...